Being socialble in London is quite an important part in our life.
The most of the students they will notice that everybody around them has their own personal lives in London and that is being busy actually. Some of you will notice that the most of people , yes they do talk but just to be "kind".Hi how are you, how was your day/week, aw that's cool yeah yeah....sometimes that's the conversation !Do not be embarassed of that anyway. Just be as you are and maybe sometimes people want to feel how a bit of more spark and interest on that. Not just the basics.Not like you are pretending to be "nice and kind" . I suggest that If you do not want to talk to someone , just don't . That makes you a real person , no lies no fake personality.Just be straight face the people and be real. There is no any need of fakeness.If you want to gain some real friends that they will be next to you not just for now but maybe for the rest of your life be real and honest as well. Do not show that you have any need of "friends"or that you depending on them, just be normal and let things flow.
Well sometimes also there is another hard part of being social that makes us, people wondering if we are doing something wrong.Either if we are students or working - we surround ourselves with the people of the specific environment that we currenlty are.What I want to conclude with this is that the people we meet there are already in a "company". There are all in one company.So sometimes we feel a bit out of it because we are new. Do not try to be accepted in that , if you feel these people are your people as well then you will feel it. Sometimes we do feel when someone is our "alter ego".The same way we do feel about our girfriend/boyfriend.Its the same subconcious feeling with our mates as well. Soul mates is not only for relationships is for friendships as well. Just let things flow and make people laugh, mostly this works. The most of the people you will may be friends are the people that you have same interests like your studies-your classmates or the people you are working with.So this ain't bad at all just make sure you are okay with the others so they will be as well!